We Have Resilience All Wrong

I will ruffle feathers with that title. My intention is not to pick a fight. Today my writing is personal. I want you to know the reasons why I’m no fan of resilience. I’ll take a step further and write why I want us to stop encouraging each other to have more of it.
We want to be strong. We think patience is a good thing. We encourage each other in our dreams and hopes. When we lack any or all these sentiments—when things