The short answer is, I can’t possibly explain this in one blog entry. The longer answer first requires a question. Fellas, do you really not know? Or, are you just tired of being told what you can and can’t say anymore.
Let me try to make it clear.
You spike our drinks. Why? You want sex without going through the motions. An unconscious woman is much easier to fuck than a lively one. Is there another reason? Are you scared of being turned down for sex? We should focus on your feelings (seriously?) when it comes to sex? You want, you get. Never mind what the girl wants. I wanna fuck so the roofie is going in her drink. Fuck off, asshole.
Like this:
https://www.instagram.com/reel/C73T4W2trAU/
The two men in the background who are giggling? Fuck you two as well. What about rape is funny? What about humiliating a woman is funny? Where did you get these ideas, and why aren’t you rid of them by now?
Ever seen that short clip on Instagram (or Facebook?) about the female engineer being told by a male to “read ***** et al” because she didn’t know what the hell she was talking about (according to him)? She moves her hair from her ID badge and says, “I AM ***** et al.”
Why do you assume we’re dumb? Why do you get huffy when a woman can do what you do? Likely, this is part of how you were raised. Interested in changing your mind?
What are your thoughts on this guy? Convicted rapist acting like life is just grand at the Olympics. He raped a 12-year-old girl.
https://www.instagram.com/reel/C-GAaQhxasv/
Or these guys?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EP6WEWLTO4U
Fellas, fellas, fellas. What is all this? If you’re old and stubborn and can’t be bothered to get along with women, don’t go into medicine, politics, education, or any field. Is it really difficult for you to understand how poorly these types of behaviors make men look. (Yup, especially white men.) No. That was too nice. It’s no longer okay. I’m sorry times have changed, but hey, they have. I don’t like the sass and the talking back I get from young 20something-year-olds who object to everything. The fact that they’re objecting to YOU is a personal blow, I’m sure. Or not. Maybe you don’t give a shit.
There is so much to say about this that a short blog entry can possibly cover. Or do justice to.
Just remember. When you want to say this?
Don’t.
https://www.instagram.com/reel/C9_UA9MtOFI/
Listen to you? Why? Who the fuck are you? Thank everything good in life for the man chastising him. Some men get it. I’m so grateful to those who do.